
Our
experience is that a significant proportion of people who get in
touch with us suffer from shyness and social phobia.
Shyness
has its root in fear. When a horse comes to a fence and it can't
jump over, it is frightened and shies away. The obstacle is visible,
we, on the other hand, take our obstacles with us.
Our
programme is designed to remove the fears that exist largely in
our minds. It is tailor made for each individual but consists of
three stages.
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A
number of one-to-one sessions, focusing on our fears, when
they have arisen, and how they can be overcome.
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When
the time is right, the programme continues with participation
in a series of small group meetings with others who have had
similar problems of social anxiety that are learning how to
cope with situations which previously would have frightened
them and they are learning to talk.
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After
a suitable period in the small group, the programme continues
with social occasions in an enjoyable and supportive atmosphere
where friendships and other relationships may be made with any
or all of the other participants.
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By the end of participation in this programme the fears and confusions
that lie behind social anxiety will have been resolved so that participators
can converse with others and make their way in their social and
personal relationships with others.
Fees
for one-to-one sessions are negotiated with the therapist on a sliding
scale.
Taking
Things Further
We
offer a free assessment for anyone wanting to take part in any of
our activities. See Taking Things Further.
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